Great Guys: We Have the Tools. Inside every good man is a Great Guy. Smiling men hiking a mountain trail together
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Helping men solve problems better with tools they didn't learn, NEVER WITNESSED growing up

“DO THE BEST YOU CAN UNTIL YOU KNOW BETTER. THEN WHEN YOU KNOW BETTER. DO BETTER.”

  • MAYA ANGELOU

“if only i knew then what i know now.”

  • Tom

Want More

Success, Love, Happiness?

Frustrated? Alone? Misunderstood? Unhappy?

Colorful cartoon illustration of a toolbox labeled "Life Changing Tools for Men" with a cartoon blue monster character giving a thumbs up, wearing a cap, outdoors with mountains and trees in the background. The toolbox contains various items labeled with words like "Help Good Happen," "Follow Your North Star," and "Master Key Curiosity," and features a compass, tools, and a sign that says "Grudge Less Love More." The text above reads "We Have the Tools" and below is "Fix, Rebuild, Strengthen" with a question at the bottom asking "Unhappy? Who isn't? Want More? Who Doesn't?".

We have the tools.

When arguments repeat, frustration builds, or you shut down—at home or at work—Great Guys gives you practical tools to respond calmly, communicate clearly, and make better choices.

The Great Guys Tool Chest gives you the practical tools you need to handle tough moments, make better choices, and strengthen the relationships that matter. One tool at a time. One problem at a time. Start with the tool you need right now.

The Problem is outdated tools.

Tools that may have worked generations ago
but don’t work now.
they Don’t address problems like:

  1. MY PAST KEEPS SHOWING UP IN MY PRESENT.

  2. I REACT BEFORE I HAVE TIME TO THINK.

  3. I WANT MY RELATIONSHIPS TO FEEL BETTER.

  4. THERE’S SOMETHING I NEED TO MAKE RIGHT.

  5. I’M HAVING A HARD TIME FORGIVING MYSELF.

  6. I KEEP THINKING I SHOULD BE BETTER, DO MORE OR PROVE MYSELF.

  7. I KNOW MY OLD RESPONSE ISN’T WORKING, BUT I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO INSTEAD.

  8. I’VE LOST TOUCH WITH THE PERSON I REALLY WANT TO BE.

  9. I WANT TO STOP CHASING AND START ATTRACTING.

  10. I WANT TO MAKE MORE GOOD HAPPEN.

  11. “I’M NOT SURE WHAT NEEDS FIXING—I JUST KNOW I WANT TO MAKE BETTER CHOICES ABOUT WHERE I’M HEADED.”

  12. I DON’T KNOW WHO TO TRUST.

Practical Tools for Men to Handle Conflict and Build Better Relationships

Learn to recognize your triggers, pause before reacting, and communicate more clearly—at home or at work.

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watch the following free videos
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Vision

  1. Grudge free

  2. Gripe less

  3. innocent

  4. Attract success, love, happiness

  5. from UNINOFRMED Adolescent to adult in awe

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mission

good happens!
We help.

free Amends video guide

How can i tell if these tools will work for me?

The following CDC approved quiz will help identify if you grew up with outdated tools in your family.

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Great Guys: We Have the Tools

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Great Guys mentors: the men who went before
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